Tuesday, February 22, 2005

point of view - rape issue

"i found out that rape issue is an impending catastrophe and i see no way out for us escape that so called stupid disaster except a modern way of thinking of each human being." - azy

"In my point of view, women always are being violent victims such as abuse and rape. In other word, nowadays patriarchies placed women in a low basement in whatever situation, time, and case and so on. They are also exploitation women to please them self.

Rape crime is one of the exploitation of women. The crime is happened because man never controls their passion in whatever situation. When they can’t control their passion, women became a victim to please them. This will causes desecrate, rape, and murder.

To avoid this thing happen to anyone, women have to be more careful. They have to bring anything that they think can help them to protect them self along such as eye spray and avoid them self-walking in a dark alley alone. That was very dangerous, dude! For those who had been survived from being rape or had been raped, they have to make a report in nearer police station. People or police have to cooperate to prevent rape, this is very important because women nowadays being so scare to walk alone or going to anyway that they wish for. There are no safe places for them!

I’m not saying that men are sources of rape because women also always exploitation their body and sexy which is will causes rape. But in many case, men have to be blame because why they can’t control their passion. There are also a case that a small little girl been raped. Is it her fault? Is she wearing a little sexy dress that can make men passionate? So, we can’t blame women in certain case especially in a case of rape." - nana

"I was flipping through the papers from the newspaper stand in Kolej Mawar when i came accross a disgusting paedophile case.. A mere girl was raped and sodomised.. found dead.. naked...

The next day.. I was watchin the tv alongside with my friend when I noticed another rape news.. this time a china student.. sadistically raped, sodomised,then killed....

what has come over the world today... its getting crazy and crazy.. i thought... i mean.. particularly no female is safe anywhere now... even in the comforts of your own home.. even in the arms of your boyfriends and friends... incase you havent heard... date rape is not new... and so is raping your own flesh and blood... and rapist dont just attack beautiful young grrls no more... makcik,nenek and budak yang jilat hingus sendiri also gets thier tostesterone pumping and thier hearts wild.. this fuckin things dont just happen lately... this is not a new issue..but rape is certainly one of the most talked about issue nowadays...

what contributes to this...? 'is it because of the hotpants i wear today?or was it because you adore my cleavage? perhaps it was my large breasts or my nice butt?'.. one might ask that... was it all because of that?

if it was... how do you explain paedophile... penetrating a mere child who knows soo little of sex.. imagine how he or she would have felt at that time.. if i were a paedophile.. id drench myself in kerosene and set myself ablaze... how do you explain raping of own flesh and blood... all the trust and love the victims invested to thier rapist shattered in an instant... how do you explain date rape?

i guess the real answer here lies in the filthy minds of the rapist... i think the main reason that contributes to such issue is the lack of respect of the male species to the female species.. men tends to think that they are the dominent species... and we, female are the weaker species, of lower heirachy.. im not reffering to all male.. but a vast number of people thinks that way.. They tend to look down on female.. regard them as weak and slaves who must obey orders... If this is not the case... then i think men should at least ask right...?but no... they just take without consent...

I also think that men should really controll thier sexual desires..a firend of mine once told me that whenever he sees a grrl with big breast.. he would imagine him undressing her... well.. i cant stop him from doing that... but it should stop there... but i guess some people dont just stop there.. they take thigss one step ahead... taking it to reality... thats when rape takes place...

where there is soo little that we can do for unusual case of rape such as paedophile, female plays a big part in prevention of rape... first and foremost.. attitude... yes... flirting openly is like an invite to sex for some people... but the main thing is to think fast ifyou are stuck in such situation that could lead to rape... it would help if one knows self defence.. Pepper spray would be the ideal weapon to protect yourself.. its even better than knife bacause you dont need contact to unleash your defence... never walk alone in dark alleys or places which you yourself doubt the safeness...

During parties or social activities... never accept invites of some people you just met back to thier homes.. if you are uncertain of your boyfriend or friend.. follow your heart..trust your instincts.. it may be your last defence againts date rape... make sure your drinks arent spiked..dont drink too much till youre drunk.. people tend to take advantage of these situation..

If you ever been raped and survived it.. dont keep it all to your self... tell it to someone who can help you... lodge a police report...and the best thinig is to know your rights!its your last defence againts the cruelty of reality where sometimes even the police doubt you..." - tqah

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